Notes to self

[autographedcat]

No matter how much other people don't believe it, you are perfectly capable of being a selfish, whining, and insecure twit.

Sometimes people have more important things going on in their lives and can't just instantly attend to you when you want. This doesn't mean you aren't important.

Your insecurities are largely in your own mind, and rarely borne out in reality.

When you know you're being insecure and impatient, listen to yourself and stop fretting over it.

Repeat as necessary.

Comments

[pocketnaomi.livejournal.com]

Frankly, although I'm sorry you are unhappy in ways which make it necessary, it's reassuring to see you have to do this kind of thing. You always seem so immune.

[filkerdave.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

Words for ALL of us to remember.

But if you need a voice, bro, you know my mobile #

[quadrivium.livejournal.com]

Thank you for the Mother's Day email, Sweetie. *hugs*

[cellio]

{hugs}

[delennara.livejournal.com]

*takes a chair, climbs on it, and hugs you *

[bardling.livejournal.com]

*hugstight*

Welcome to the world of being perfectly normally human ;)

...and here for you if you need me. Since what you said is entirely true - perhaps not always instantly, but as you *are* important to me, you have fairly good chances of instantly most times, especially when it's something important. *morehugs*

[katyhh.livejournal.com]

What bardling said!!! *sigh* Especially since I've "chewed your ear off" quite a few times ... one email dropped and I log onto AIM or IRC, or a ping if I'm there ... or I call, yup I mean that *warmhuggles*. But then, I really assume people will be standing in line, now, to be there for you ... ;-)

[apel.livejournal.com]

One of those days, huh?

Self

[zencuppa.livejournal.com]

*hugs* for you :-) And a listening ear when you need it *s*

Looking forward to seeing you in June!

Andrea

[kyttn.livejournal.com]

*HUGGGGS*. I wish I had seen this earlier. Please know you can call me whenever you need to talk. You've been a wonderful friend for me, and I'd love to have a chance to return the favor.

[(Anonymous)]

So, my friend, is life a little better today?

Ann Onynous.

[poltr1]

I don't know what happened that caused you to react this way, but this time you were able to ride out the storm. Way to go.

BTW, this post is a keeper. I find myself in simiar situations, and sometimes this is what I need to hear. Thank you.